One Week Post Op

9.18.08

Andy and I on the Erie Canal trip(8.08)headed for some then unknown trouble ahead

I removed all the bandages and took a look at the boob, it isn't that bad! As I mentioned before, the lymph node removal scar is the worst and I can't wear shirts that cover it because it rubs against it, so I am forced to wear tank tops and expose you all to the ugliness. Some may say it is my attempt at getting sympathy, but it really just feels better with it exposed and nothing on it. If you make note of the scar when you see me and seem interested in more, I am sharing the bruising and other scar that is hiding under my shirt, I haven't had any waredrobe malfunctions yet with nipple slippage, but there's always that chance I guess. Funny, no men have wanted to see it, I guess it's pretty nasty looking for those with a week stomach and apparently men can't get past their week stomach enough even if it means seeing my boob! Seriously, the scar on my boob is minimal and on the underneath, so once the brusing is gone, you'll never know anyone took a clump of cancerous cells from there. It doesn't appear that there is any disfiguration or big hole. So, now my daily breast care routine includes:

1. taking the pain meds, as it is still pretty sore

2. rubbing on arnica gel for the bruising & swelling (thank you Ali & your clotting disorder for the knowledge and prompt deliver of the arnica)

3. applying mederma on the scars to reduce the incidence of visable scars in 6-8 weeks

4. rubbing on lavender oil for healthy breast restoration, to fight off infection, and cause it just smells good

It is amazing I have time for any other part of my body, my family, or any of you, but I am good at multi-tasking and organizing.

I called the Doctor yesterday to find out if they had the final report on my node and tissue evaluation. They still didn't and said they hope to have it today and would call. I see the Radiation Oncologist tomorrow for the initial evaluation and anticipate I will start radiation treatments within the next week or two.

So, yes I am out and about again, so careful on the roads if you see me. I drove myself to a hair appointment on Tuesday and had a lovely time with everyone @ Bijou. Kim gave me a book, "Are you there vodka, it's me Sherie". Ok, it didn't say my name, but I substituted my name in cause it should say my name.

The Ciaccios made us come to them for dinner Tuesday. It was nice eating out and having company. Lori was very strict with me and wouldn't let me help at all. Ruby hit her eye against a table while there and we had to rush her to Dr. Ciaccio's chair (he's an ER doc) where he administered emergency TLC and a dab of opthalmic ointment. The next morning Ruby got up and stood in my nursing line to have her treatment and I think she now feels she belongs to our ailing family. Rex's rash has resolved, sio he's due for something soon!

I had lunch with my parents and sister yesterday, my parents are heading to a NASCAR race today and wanted to make sure I was able to manage without them. Dad mowed the lawn before he went, thanks Roggie!

Went to Rex's 5th grade orientation last evening and had a chance to see alot of you, you all look so good! Mr. B is pretty enthusiastic and makes me want to be in 5th grade, the kids are going to have a great year!

So, about Andy.

He is back to a normal schedule at work. No time for naps again for him. He is tired by the time he comes home. PT has been going well and he is not using the sling as much, even in public, so if you see him and want to give him a big hug or slap, make sure you do it on his left side.

He still is trying to sleep in the recliner, but has even had nights where he can't sleep in that. Good thing he is use to getting by on little sleep. He's still quite uncomfortable, but putting on a good face.

Well, the boss is calling now asking for me to do some work, so work I will. I'll let you know as soon as I hear from the Doc about my final results.

Got my tickets for the Breast Cancer event at Mirbeau, Did you?

Sherie